I am nearing the completion of radiation.... Oct. 31st.
My days have been full with going to Ann Arbor for treatment. I am getting some reddness and itch with the radiation. This is my last week plus the following Monday, so I expect my skin will blister and continue getting red. I have met several other patients while waiting for my appointment. We all share our stories and the effects of the treatment and our experiences.
Orchestra rehearsals started two weeks ago. I enjoy playing my cello in the Tecumseh Pops Orchestra and have the energy to get to rehearsals. This will be my 31st year. My how time flies!
Joe and I have plans to go to Florida this winter. I bought 2 pair of capri pants this week so I will have some summer clothes to wear when we head south. I have lost 25 pounds and none of my clothes fit. I have bought new slacks for fall and winter. Some tops are too big but most are O.K.
finally, my appetite has returned but I haven't gained any weight and really don't want to gain much back. Which closet will I get dressed from.... the old size or the new size?
This journey has been a big learning experience for me. Twenty-five years ago Cal was being treated for Melanoma. He was 42 years old when he was first diagnosed. He was a marvelous teacher for all of us as he went thru treatment; clinical trials in New York, Washington state, Wisconsin and Michigan. In 1986 there was no treatment plan for his cancer. We tried to find the cure by being in clinical trials. Today, there is a better chance if someone gets the Melanoma diagnosis. With all cancers the early detection is very important for living longer. The same is true with breast cancer. So may patients I have met found their tumor thru self examination. That is what happened with me. I found the lump. I have had annual mammograms for many years. My tumor developed in a couple of months, according to the surgeon that did the disection. So I hope that when you read this blog you will do a self exam, do it at least once a month if not more often. Men too, you are not exempt from breast cancer.
Thank you for following this blog. I will continue to write as I continue toward good health and a full life. Your support has meant the world to me and my family. I have been truly blessed and am so grateful to have family and friends with me throughout this past year. I couldn't have made it without you.
Love,Martha
My dear Martha
ReplyDeleteJust like Cal, you are a model to us all of how to deal with adversity with dignity, determination, humor, and faith. We draw strength from your example and energy from your journey. You gain support from your friends, and they are many because of the way you lead you life. It is so typical of you that you take this chance to remind people to do self-exams. You are a teacher to the core!!
Thank you my dear friend.